Most writers I have known, or read interviews with, would
rather keep their private lives private. Publishing, i.e. making public, is for
the work, not their bios or beeswax.
But today’s publishing demands some personal exposure. It’s
a weird and uncomfortable transition, and in the process, some get confused as
to how personal to be in the virtual social space.
To the rescue comes a polished and experienced professional,
literary agent Janet Reid. See her blog post
here,
about how to (and mostly how NOT to) present oneself as you head to the field
of publishing.
It’s solid advice from one who knows. Not arguing, and also
breathing a sigh of relief that I have nothing in my digital past that needs
fixing. (Actually, almost nothing,
but I’ll leave it there.)
However, I have one more to add to this list of please-don’t-do-that,
and it’s a personal one that has bothered me for years, mostly because it is so
ubiquitous on writers’ sites.
It’s the tendency to hide in plain sight.
I took care to include in my About Me/bio all true things
that are germane and pertinent to why I do what I do. I omitted plenty that I
don’t want to share and don’t think has relevance to my writing life. But even
as I use some humor, I wrote central and deep truths.
I understand how some do not want to say anything that goes beneath
the surface. Thus, we get “fun facts” such as “I like green jelly beans, have a fear of spiders, and once climbed a
mountain with a plate on my head.”
And that's pretty much all they say.
This sort of disclosure is not much fun,
and serves to masquerade as personal sharing while hiding.
Maybe having a factual bio would be better. It’s not humorous,
but I’ll get to know you just a wee bit. Janet Reid mentions that you should
have a photo of yourself, not of a typewriter. I think a bio should also expose
something.
Just my take on this tricky road. I know it isn’t easy.