Tuesday, November 9, 2021

What brings JOY?

 

I had one of those epiphanies, where I realized that moments of joy in my life were neither created nor re-created by me.

 

Put another way, I can do things that I think might bring me joy, or repeat things that brought me joy before. But neither guaranties I would have the experience.

 

The mystery of joy, that feeling that things are in place and the place is beautiful, comes when it comes and thus is a moment of grace.

 

I thought about C. S. Lewis’s masterpiece, SURPRISED BY JOY. It's an autobiographical account of his discovery of faith. It mysteriously echoes his finding earthly love and marriage later in life, with his wife Joy Davidman. The book was published before they met.

 

When I read this book many years ago, I focused on the “Joy” in the title. Now I’m meditating on the “Surprised.”

© Margaryta Yermolayeva

9 comments:

Vijaya said...

I loved Surprised by Joy. Our priest makes a distinction between joy (which is internal and one of the gifts of the Holy Spirit) and pleasure, which is due to externals and is important too. But even in the most difficult times, we can choose joy. Today I picked a chickadee feather and a red maple leaf, not a surprise given it's fall but so pretty to have on my kitchen counter.

Barbara Etlin said...

Wishing you serendipity today. Is the painting by Chagall?

Mirka Breen said...

It has a Chagall feel, doesn't it? Call it "inspired by"

Kelly Hashway said...

I agree. It comes when it comes. That’s the beauty of it.

Evelyn said...

You're right, joy can't be forced. It's a gift. And I'm wishing you much joy, my friend.

MirkaK said...

What you've written feels right to me. I can walk along the same bluff trail every day, gaze out at the water and up at the sky, watch the birds and marine mammals, and know how fortunate I am to live at the Pacific Ocean. But some of those times, I am suddenly infused with such a sense of overwhelming joy, one that is impossible to predict when it will come nor what will cause it to arise. A synonym for "joy" is "delight." I looked up the etymology and learned that it comes from a Latin verb that means "to charm." We are unexpectedly charmed, magically infused with the wonder of being alive in the moment. All we can do to prepare for its arrival is to be present and notice.

Janie Junebug said...

Did you do the painting? Or is it a drawing? I really like it.

Love,
Janie

Mirka Breen said...

Not my work, but fitting my experience of *joy*

Sue said...

Good post.