There is a of video showing Ellen DeGeneres crying at
the intro to her (otherwise upbeat) talk show, saying that “today is a
bad day.” She tells her audience that she’s been asked how she can go on
when she’s sad.
Some
days, some weeks, some months, are just like that. The show must go on. Ellen did.
For
us, functioning on a less glamourous plane, this state is still familiar. What
to do when there is no contract, no deadline set, and no external reason to go
on? Creative folks have all encountered this. I sure have.
I've heard writers tell others to go for a walk, or set a manuscript aside for
a time, or do something nice for themselves. Some swear by chocolate. Coffee
works better for me. But then, I start my good days with it anyway.
Some
think talk therapy is part of the answer, and there are therapists who specialize
in plowing through and out of creative dry spells. I never had the budget for
such, but I wouldn’t hesitate if I had.
There’s
a third way, and it’s the only one that has worked for me. I call it “write
anyway.” I have also told progeny, when they hit a wall, that you only know how
to get out of a ditch by actually climbing out, a.k.a. doing it.
Something
about grinding the wheels and suspending the critic inside (and the sabotaging
voices outside) while creating, has been therapeutic for me.
It
doesn’t actually matter that the results are not golden, the process is.
You’re
back in it, and the stalled engine is starting to rev up.
Great post, Mirka! Next time I find myself in a slump, I'm going to channel the Little Engine!
ReplyDeleteGreat to see you here, Amber. Thanks for sharing on Facebook.
DeleteSame here. I push through until I'm back in my groove and happily writing.
ReplyDeleteSeeing how productive you are, Kelly, no one would ever think you have a dry spell.
DeleteIt's making lemonade from lemons...continuing even though you want to stay in your own private hobbit hole. Some call it grit.
ReplyDeleteTrue Grit!
DeleteGreat post, and I totally agree with you :)
ReplyDeleteGrazie, Monica!
DeleteThe Artist's Way, by Julia Cameron has great tips for this too. I'm getting over my dry spell hopefully. :)
ReplyDeleteYou and me, Johnell, getting over and getting better at climbing that hill.
DeleteI love that little-engine motto! I think I can! I think I can! I think I can! Great post, Mirka!
ReplyDeleteYup, if you think, you can.
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