“People’s good deeds are used by the eternal as seeds for planting trees
in the Garden of Eden: thus, each of us creates our own paradise.”
The Mezeritzer Rebbe
Good deeds are the best mood elevator.
Speaking about doing good is one of those things that
sounds like one has run out of clichés, so we harvest others' clichés.
It doesn't make it less true, just not original.
It doesn't make it less true, just not original.
Traditional communities have institutionalized this. Modern
educational programs have returned to emphasize volunteering. Twelve-step
programs are built on strugglers helping each other and thus helping
themselves.
The wisdom is old, perennial, and deep.
The wisdom is old, perennial, and deep.
Doing for another will make you feel good. It’s not
complicated. It’s not about being unselfish either; it’s the best way to help
oneself. Even the Objectivists’ Philosophy of Selfishness acknowledges this.
The quotation from the Hassidic Rebbe makes it clear
that, from the Jewish perspective, even a deed done without one’s heart in it becomes a building block to
happiness.
I didn't feel like it. I didn't feel much of anything,
to be frank. But I went and did it anyway. I helped someone.
Like I said-- best mood elevator.
Next time you reach for the pill bottle, or any bottle, or the remote control, or the illusion of control-- try this: tell yourself you can always do that later, after you've helped someone.
Next time you reach for the pill bottle, or any bottle, or the remote control, or the illusion of control-- try this: tell yourself you can always do that later, after you've helped someone.
Reminder to self: Plant a tree today. After weeding,
that is.
It does feel good to help other people. Absolutely! :)
ReplyDeleteI so agree! In fact, I think it's a sign of maturity when people are finally old enough to realize how much fun it is to give -- and it often IS more fun than receiving.
ReplyDeleteGreat wisdom, Mirka. We aren't meant to gaze at our own navels.
ReplyDeleteNice. And so true.
ReplyDeleteSo true Mirka. :)
ReplyDeleteWonderful reminder, thanks.
ReplyDeleteYes, do good deeds. Everyday. For strangers. For family. Start small.
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